Playfulness
We remind ourselves that we can be flexible and creative even in challenging situations.
Self-compassion
We remind ourselves to view what we think, feel, say, and do through a wise and kind perspective and respond to our own thoughts and feelings with wisdom and kindness, too.
Restraint (contemplative)
We remind ourselves that we can tolerate strong emotions and hold back from reacting to our thoughts, feelings, and sensations.
Restraint (behavioral)
We remind ourselves that we can compose ourselves even when we feel stressed, overly excited, or upset, and we can hold back from reacting to a situation before thinking it through.
Present moment
We remind ourselves that we can resist getting sidetracked from the present to observe, listen, and be fully engaged in what’s happening right now.
An open mind
We remind ourselves that even things that seem different from one another have something in common and that there is more than one side to every story.
Motivation
We remind ourselves to reflect on why we’re about to do or say something before we do or say it, to make sure that the our purpose is aligned with our motivation.
Interdependence
We remind ourselves that what’s happening in this moment is the result of countless interdependent factors, some of which we know, some of which we don’t know, and some of which are entirely outside of our control.
Everything changes
We remind ourselves that everything comes, everything goes, and everything is in flux.
Discernment
Before responding to or judging a complex situation, we remind ourselves to consider whether what’s happening and our possible response are helpful to other people, the planet, and us.
Wise confidence
We remind ourselves that we can tolerate uncomfortable situations and feelings and that we can stay clearheaded and warmhearted in any situation.
Compassion
We remind ourselves that we have the capacity to understand what something looks and feels like from another person’s perspective and to respond to them wisely and with kindness.